nesisa? Isizathu sokuba kufuneka nesisa kubo bonke abantu.
Ukuba nesisa ukuba wonke umntu olunoncedo yayo. Akaneli nje ikwenza uzive kakuhle ngaphakathi. Nesisa ikwenza ukhule uwedwa. Uyakufundisa ukuba bathobeke, it teaches you to be great. 
Ihlabathi ifundisa ukuba ukuzingca ngenxa ilifa izinto. Uninzi ixesha ezi zinto ukuba akunyanzelekanga ukuba kufuneka.
Umzekelo, xa ifowuni entsha smart uphuma abantu abaninzi bayakhawuleza ukuba oko kuba le nto zakutshanje. Ifowni entsha akanayo loo iimpawu phi zaphuculwa ngaphezu imodeli yangaphambili. Kodwa abasebenzisi abakulungeleyo ukuchitha amakhulu ngaphezulu ifowuni omtsha ukuba kufuneka babe, ngoba? Ngaba kungenxa yokunyoluka? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba sikuxabisa oko sele?
Society usifundisa ngesimo. Yintoni umahluko phakathi kwezityebi namahlwempu? Wondla kwaye belambile? Akukho ngokwenene umahluko phakathi kwethu njengabantu. Yintoni eyenza ukusebenzisa eyahlukileyo omnye komnye bubuntu bethu sethu.
Abazizityebi bazizityebi.
Kukho umahluko phakathi kwezityebi abazizityebi? Isityebi ozalwa eninzi imali okanye kufumana imali eninzi ilifa okanye lotto. Nangona abazizityebi wamkela imali yabo ngokusebenza nzima kwaye ke baqhutywa imali efana izityebi. Baya baqhutywa iinkanuko zabo kunye namaphupha.
Yintoni onokuyenza ngemali yakho kwaye usebenzise indlela ngundoqo nabani impumelelo yexesha elide.
Ngako oko wathi ukuba isityebi kwaye bobabini ezilahlekileyo yonke esisityebi ngubani Ucinga ukuba uya kwazi ukuba indlela ebuyela ithamsanqa labo? Abazizityebi kunjalo! Enye into eyahlula zazizityebi besinhanha ulwazi. Bazizityebi akwazi ukwenza njani imali kunye Esisityebi nje ukuba uqale.
Ezi nkcazelo nje ezimbini. Impumelelo ixhomekeke ngokupheleleyo phezu ngamnye ngokungathi ndichaze phambi. Eyona izinto abantu ezohlukileyo ulwazi, isimo, nabalinganiswa.
Kwenziwe ntoni?
Bill Gates wathi,
“Ukuba bazalwa amahlwempu ayikho impazamo yakho, kodwa ukuba bafe amahlwempu oko impazamo yakho.” Ucinga ukuba kuthetha? Ukuba uqalela nto, awukwazi nje unqwenela izinto ukuwa lengubo yakho. Kuneke u iphithizelayo uze ube smart ukuba yinto ebomini.
Icephe zesilivere ziya kuphela ndiyakuva. Mna andikanyuki, esithi umntu osisityebi ayinakuba zizityebi bona ngokupheleleyo nako, kodwa oko kuxhomekeke phezu ngamnye.
Babe nolwazi kwaye nombulelo
Ukuba umntu osebenza nzima ukuba amaphupha akho afezeke babe nolwazi kwaye uxanduva oye khona wena oye wanceda nawe uhambo lwakho ukuya phezulu. Yiba khona kubo ngokunjalo kwaye kubanceda kakade ukuba unako ukuze kukhule ndawonye.
Kwaye xa ekugqibeleni musani ukwenza nto yaye amawaka zakho, izigidi, kwaye ezigidi, uza kwenza ntoni ngemali yakho? Thenga izindlu inkulu (zindlu), obutofotofo okanye kwezemidlalo iimoto, ezisuke yabucala, etc. Mna ingasixeleli ukuba ikulungele, kodwa yonke loo mali ndiyathemba amandla abuhambi entlokweni yakho. Okanye ego wakho ixabiso.
Ukunika emva ebona abanye babe nempumelelo kwakunye zingcono yimvakalelo kunokuba xa ungekho phezulu konke ngokwakho. Kwaye nokuba uzama ukunceda abanye bona bengathandi ukubeka umsebenzi ngoko imizamo yenu engento kwaye musa uziphe ixesha lakho. Nika ulwazi lwakho umntu abaya bawuthimbe, ukusiqhuba.
Yaye njengoko ubona kulo ividiyo ngasentla asinguye wonke ukukhathalele imali nokuba ezinkulu odumileyo. Indyebo ilizwi enamandla kakhulu kwaye kuthetha izinto ezininzi. Ewe, ukuba zizityebi xa kuziwa kwi imali, kodwa kuba sisityebi eluthandweni, ulonwabo, kwaye nempilo.
Musa ukucinga!
Unako sigqibe umntu ukuba abe ngumntu yonwabileyo ngonaphakade, kodwa eneneni ukuze inesigulo amanwele. Akuyazi into baye batyhubela. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba wakhulela rhabaxa okanye ukuze ebehamba ngokusebenzisa into. Ngoko ke musa ukucinga!
Abanye abantu ngcono ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo ngaphezu kwabanye. Ukuba into endibulala
someone they may lash out in different ways, umzekelo, lo mntu kungathatha umsindo wabo phezu wonke umntu xa loo mntu lodandulukayo cwaka lonke ixesha.
Awunokwazi, ngoko sukucinga. Ukwakha ubuhlobo naloo mntu okanye noko yenze unxulumano loluntu kunye nabo owuvayo indlela apho kubo ukuba kufuneka kubekho mbandela iimeko.
iziphumo ezimbini ububele utshaba lwakho? 
Ukuba balwa okanye exambulisana nomntu kungcwaba zenjana. Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukutshatyalaliswa okanye lithemba. Ukuba amandla kufuneka isetyenziselwe ukwakha into enkulu kunye. Act nobubele umntu awuka wayeyoliswa kakhulu yaye loo ntiyo ukuba unayo ngenxa omnye komnye ukuze babuye ubuhlobo.
Xa uhlobo yakho emntwini loo mntu balixabise inceba yakho loo mntu wenza 
uyanqena umbulelo wenu. Kufuneka ukhaba namawa. Esinye sezizathu ukulahlwa kwabo kubangelwa kukuthanda wesiphithiphithi kunye aba bantu kufuneka ibe ebomini kuba baya kubamba kuphela emva. Bathi abantu abangakwaziyo ukuthanda abanye kungenxa yokuba ndinganithandi ngokwabo.
nika, nika, nika, kwaye niya kwamkela.
Give more than you take and things will be given to you naturally. Nokuba ngaba kwamkela nto emva eziphathekayo uza kufumana imvakalelo mkhulu umphefumlo wakho. Musani obawayo. Ewe, kufuneka wenze izinto ezikwenza wonwabe, kodwa ukuba umntu efuna uncedo, ukubanceda ukuze akuncede ngeendlela ukuba akanakuze amncede ngokwakho.
Ngoko ke, Ndicela umngeni kuni! Ndicela umngeni ukuba aye apho kwaye. Nika njengawe ungandixelelanga phambi! Ndivuya
asithethi kuphuma apho kwaye ukuba uzigqala njengezingabalulekanga. Yiya phaya phandle baze babe nesisa kubantu kukuhlonela, siqonde inceba yakho, aze okunene bafanelwe!
Awunayo ukunikela into eziphathekayo. Do something as simple as saying hello, usebenzisa imbeko, ukuchitha ixesha nomntu, uthetha nomntu ukuba kungekhona xa, ukunika iingcebiso, into elula nje ukunika umntu uncumo, ndaphilisa umntu kuyihleka, etc. ufumane ilungelo ingcamango?
Apho nesisa namhlanje? Ngaba abuyise? Ukuba akuzange nceda izimvo ngezantsi namava akho. Kwakhona ukuba uyakholwa eli nqaku ifuna nceda kubandakanya izimvo zakho apha ngezantsi.
