Usuku lwezithandani…Kulungile, ngoko xesha lonyaka kwakhona xa wonke umntu ufumana ku bonisa zonke Gumede. Le mini kakhulu lamadoda ndileqeka ukufumana loo mfazi okhethekileyo ebomini babo into ekhethekileyo. Ndixelele… ke ukuba umntu? Ngaba loo mfo lowo ulindele de Day Valentine ukuya kwi ebusuku ukumnyanga ngaphandle kunye / okanye ukufumana into ethile ekhethekileyo?
akazange lweValentine Day kuza njani kakade?
Usuku lwezithandani ke ukususela indoda egama St. Valentine ohamba ngokuchasene nemiyalelo umlawuli kunye izibini eziselula ezitshatileyo. Asizizo zonke izibini ngoku…. Umlawuli Claudias II wayengafuni amajoni akhe ukuba utshatile kuba ecinga ukuba nantoni na eyenzekayo amajoni akhe iintsapho ngoko amajoni bakhe babengayi kulwa kwakunye abafanele ngokuchaseneyo amajoni abangatshatanga ngaphandle umthwalo ngokweemvakalelo.
St. Valentine ekugqibeleni waxwilwa, entolongweni kwaye batyakatywa kuba neentlanganiso umtshato ngokuchasene neemfuno woMlawuli uKlawudiyo II.
Ngomnyaka 269 AD, Valentine wagwetywa yinxalenye emithathu-ukwenziwa amajoni ngokundibetha, yokuxulutywa, yaye ekugqibeleni decapitation zonke ngenxa kundimela umtshato ngumKristu. Uhlobo ebaxiweyo musa ucinga?
Ibali uya ukuba amazwi okugqibela wabhala ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe ezibe njengenqaku Asterius’ intomba. Waphefumlela missives namhlanje uthando ngokuthi azisayine, “ukusuka Valentine wakho.” St. Valentine nakholwa ukuba wafa ngomhla we-14 kweyoMdumba 270 AD. Ngoko nosuku lweValentina.
Uhlobo nyhikityha kwaye enencasa ngexesha elifanelekileyo elinye? St. Valentine wawalwela uthando ngokwakhe kwakunye nabanye. Uyakwazi ukujonga St. ibali ngokupheleleyo metine Apha , Ukuba into Ndiye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku iye yabangela umdla ezinye.
Ngoko ke…
Ndiyathemba ukuba ube ulonwabele imbali isifundo kancinane. Ewe, Usuku lwezithandani yimini enkulu abathandi, izibini, okanye nantoni na ofuna ukuzibiza.
Kodwa kutheni uzithobele ukuba imini enye ukubonisa ngokwenene uthando lwakho esinye isiqingatha yakho? St. Ibali Valentine yeyona abadumileyo ehlabathini luthando, kodwa kufuneka ubonise kwaye asebenze uthando kwiqabane lakho ulwaphulo lonke ixesha…ilungelo ngemihla?
Asinto malunga nelekese, itshokolethi, iibhaluni, iintyatyambo, amakhadi, nezacholo, teddy weebhere, okanye nantoni na eyenye onokucinga ngayo. Oku konke malunga UTHANDO!!! Kwaye apho lakho enye kuphela.
Ukuba zonke izinto eziphathekayo ngoku kungekudala uya kuqonda izinto eziphathekayo ngokwenene kuba ixabiso. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ngokwenene ixesha olichitha kunye iinkumbulo uyila nabanye isiqingatha yakho!