Umuntu Ophanayo? Isizathu esenza kufanele kube esivulekile wonke umuntu.
Ukupha ukuze wonke umuntu has ozitholayo zayo. Akukona nje kuphela kungakwenza uzizwe okuhle ngaphakathi. Umuntu ophanayo kukwenza ukhule njengoba umuntu. It likufundisa ukuba bathobeke, it teaches you to be great. 
Izwe likufundisa ukuba abe sobugovu yifa sezinto. Esikhathini esiningi lezi yizinto singazi ngempela kudingeka.
Ngokwesibonelo, lapho smart phone entsha uphuma abantu abaningi ukusheshe uthole it ngoba kuyinto yakamuva. Ifoni entsha akanayo ukuthi izici upgraded okungaphezu imodeli owedlule. Kodwa abathengi abazimisele ukuchitha ezingamakhulu kufoni entsha ukuthi akudingeki, kungani? Ingabe kungenxa ukuhaha? Ingabe kungenxa yokuthi awukuqondi babe they vele fanele?
Society isifundisa ngesimo. Uyini umehluko phakathi kwabacebile nabampofu? I udla futhi abalambile? Akukho ngempela umehluko phakathi kwethu njengabantu. Yini eyenza ukusetshenziswa zahlukile esinye kwesinye ubuntu bethu kanye uhlamvu yethu.
Abacebile nezicebi.
Kukhona umehluko phakathi kwabacebile nezicebi? Abacebile bazalwa imali eningi noma ukuthola imali eningi ngenxa yefa esalizuza noma lotto. Nakuba abacebile uhola imali yabo ngokusebenzisa umsebenzi onzima futhi kungukuthi ishukunyiswa imali like abacebile. Bashukunyiswa izinkanuko, amaphupho abo futhi.
Yini ongayenza ngemali yakho bese uyisebenzisa kanjani kuyisihluthulelo ubani kungcono buyohlala isikhathi eside.
Ngemva kwalokho wathi uma abacebile abacebile kokubili walahlekelwa yikho konke ngubani ocabanga ukuthi kuzohlomula ngokubamba azi ukuthi angasilawula kanjani emuva eshisiwe yabo? I abacebile Yebo! Enye into ohlukanisa nokuceba ocebile ulwazi. Abacebile ukwazi indlela yokwenza imali futhi abacebile nje futhi ukuze uqale nge.
Lawa izincazelo ezimbili nje. Impumelelo lithembela ngokuphelele ngabanye like sengisho phambi. Izinto eziyinhloko ukuthi abantu ahlukene kukhona ulwazi, ubuntu, kanye nomlingiswa.
Okufanele ngikwenze?
Bill Gates uthe,
“Uma sizalwa abampofu akunjalo iphutha lakho, kodwa uma ushona abampofu kungcono iphutha lakho.” Ucabangani usho? Uma uqale lutho, awukwazi nje ufisa izinto ukuna ethangeni lakho. Kumele umsindo hlakanipha ukuze ibe yinto ekuphileni.
A spoon isiliva kungathatha nawe kude kangaka. Angikho bethi onothileyo ayikwazi sibe abacebile benza ngokuphelele, kodwa lokho kuncike ngokuphelele ngabanye.
Qaphela futhi ngiyambonga
Uma umuntu ozikhandlayo ukuze enze amaphupho akho engokoqobo uqaphele nozinikele osebe khona ngawe futhi wasiza wena ohambweni lwakho kuya phezulu. Yiba khona ngabo futhi ubasize vele ukuthi kungaba ukuthi ukhule ngakho ungakwazi ndawonye.
Futhi uma ekugcineni nenze kuwo futhi izinkulungwane yakho, izigidi, futhi ngisho nezigidigidi, nizokwenzenjani ngemali yakho? Thenga izindlu kekulu (mansions), sokunethezeka noma ezemidlalo izimoto, Jets yangasese, njll. Angikho ngikutshela splurge, kodwa nazo zonke leyo mali Ngithemba amandla akusho ukuya ikhanda lakho. Noma ego akusho futha.
Ukunika emuva nokubona abanye Phumelela kanye ingcono nakakhulu a umuzwa kunalokho elingaba yiko uma ungekho phezulu wedwa. Futhi ngisho noma uzama ukusiza abanye futhi hhayi bazimisele ukubeka umsebenzi in ke imizamo yakho lokho akusizi futhi awufanelwe isikhathi sakho. Yethula ulwazi lwakho umuntu abayozelusa impela awuthathe, nekuwusebentisa.
Futhi njengoba ubona ividiyo ngenhla akubona bonke abantu uyayikhathalela imali kanye nokuba enkulu nosaziwayo. Umcebo yigama elinamandla kakhulu futhi lingasho izinto eziningi. Yebo, nawe ungaba ocebile lapho kuziwa emalini, kodwa ungakwazi futhi ucebile othandweni, injabulo, kanye nempilo.
Ungacabangi!
Ungakwazi lokucabanga othile ukuba abe umuntu olujabulisa owake, kodwa empeleni zingase abaphethwe okuthile esisabekayo. Awazi yini baye baba ngokusebenzisa. Kungenzeka ukuthi lezi zibikezelo bakhula rough noma kungenzeka namanje edabula okuthile. Ngakho ungacabangi!
Abanye abantu bangcono at nokulawula imizwa yabo kunabanye. Uma kukhona nihlupha
someone they may lash out in different ways, Ngokwesibonelo, lo muntu oyothatha intukuthelo yabo out bonke ngenkathi lowo muntu liyakhala athule sonke isikhathi.
Ngeke wazi ukuthi, ngakho ungacabangi. Ukwakha ubuhlobo lowo muntu noma okungenani wenze uxhumano womuntu nabo futhi ukuthola indlela ukuba abe khona kubo uma isidingo kube kungakhathaliseki izimo.
ImiPhumela Jikelele Ababili nokuba nomusa kubo isitha sakho? 
Uma silwa noma ukuphikisana nomuntu bangcwabe izembe. Ukuphila kufushane kakhulu ngoba ukubhujiswa noma ukuphelelwa ithemba. Lawo mandla kufanele asetshenziselwe ukwakha okuthile okukhulu ndawonye. Umthetho nomusa umuntu awuyena kakhulu isithanda nokuthi inzondo nobabili ngomunye nomunye iphenduka ubungane.
Lapho nomusa wakho ukuze umuntu nokuthi umuntu angenakho siwazisa umusa wakho ke ukuthi umuntu wenzani 
awufanelwe ukubonga. Kufanele kukhahlela rocks. Esinye sezizathu bo rejection kungenxa yothando lwabo isiphithiphithi laba bantu akufanele kube ekuphileni kwakho ngoba bayoligcina wena kuphela emuva. Bathi abantu abangakwazi abathanda abanye kungenxa yokuthi lokuthi abakuthandi ngokwabo.
Nikeza, nika, nika, khona niyakwamukeliswa.
Give more than you take and things will be given to you naturally. Ngisho noma ungatholi lutho emuva wokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo uzothola nomuzwa omkhulu emphefumulweni wakho. Yekani abahahayo. Yebo, kufanele wenze izinto ezenza wena ujabule, kodwa uma othile udinga usizo, ukubasiza futhi bangase bakusize ngezindlela ukuthi awusoze wakwazi ukusiza wena.
Ngakho, I selelo you! I selelo you hamba laphaya bese benika. Nikeza abafana nawe akazange alilahle ngaphambili! Ngikhathazekile
alikhulumi ophuma khona futhi zithathwe kalula. Phuma khona futhi, awuyikuyenza lukhuni inhliziyo abantu abahlonipha nawe, siwazisa umusa wakho, futhi empeleni ebafanele!
Awunayo ukunikeza okuthile zokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo. Do something as simple as saying hello, usebenzisa imikhuba, kokuchitha isikhathi nothile, nothile oye hhayi okwesikhashana, enikeza iseluleko, nento elula njengokuthi enikeza umuntu ngokumamatheka, okwenza umuntu laugh, njll. uthola ilungelo umqondo?
Where ophanayo namuhla? Ingabe nawe kokukubuyisela? Uma ungazange sicela uphawule ngezansi isipiliyoni sakho. Futhi uma ukholwa ukuthi lesi sihloko kudingeka okungaphezu sicela ufake imibono yakho ku izimpendulo ngezansi.
