wopatsa? chifukwa akhale owolowa manja kwa aliyense.
Wamukhululukira kuti aliyense ali zosiyanasiyana yake. Sikuti iwe umamva bwino mkatimo. Kuwolowa manja chimakupangitsani inu mukule munthu. Limaphunzitsa kuti akhale odzichepetsa, it teaches you to be great. 
dziko limaphunzitsa kuti odzikonda ndi malo a zinthu. Nthawi zambiri izi ndi zinthu zimene ife sikuti timafunika.
Mwachitsanzo, pamene latsopano anzeru foni akutuluka anthu ambiri amathamangira kwa izo chifukwa ndi chinthu atsopano. The foni yatsopano sakhala ndi zinthu zambiri akweza kuposa chitsanzo yapita. Koma ogula ndi kupereka enanso ambirimbiri pa foni yatsopano ndipo safuna, chifukwa? Kodi chifukwa cha dyera? Kodi chifukwa sayamikira zimene kale?
Society komanso umatiphunzitsa za kachirombo. Kodi pali kusiyana pakati pa olemera ndi osauka Kodi? The amadya ndi anjala? Pali kwenikweni kusiyana pakati pa ife monga anthu. Kodi amapanga ntchito zosiyana kwa wina ndi mnzake ndi umunthu wathu ndi khalidwe lathu.
Olemera ndi olemera.
Pali kusiyana pakati pa olemera ndi olemera? Olemera amabadwa ndi ndalama zambiri kapena kulandira ndalama zambiri kudzera cholowa kapena lotto. Pamene olemera amapezera ndalama zawo kudzera khama ndiponso si chimalimbikitsa ndalama ngati olemera. Iwo chimalimbikitsa zilakolako zawo ndi maloto.
Kodi inu mungachite ndi ndalama zanu ndi momwe inu ntchito ndi chinsinsi aliyense ali yaitali bwino.
Ndi kuti anati ngati olemera ndi olemera onse asaluza pyonsene amene mukuganiza podziwa kubwerera mwayi wawo? The olemera kumene! Chinthu china umene umawalekanitsa olemera kwa olemera ndi chidziwitso. The olemera mukudziwa momwe ndalama ndi chuma basi nazo izo kuyamba ndi.
Izi ndi matanthauzo awiri basi. Bwino kwathunthu zimadalira munthu ngati ine tanenera kale. Zinthu zazikulu zimene anthu osiyana ndi chidziwitso, umunthu, ndi khalidwe.
Zoyenera kuchita?
Bill Gates anati,
“Ngati inu mwabadwa osauka si kulakwa kwanu, koma ngati inu mufa osauka ndi kulakwitsa kwanu.” Kodi ukuganiza kuti amatanthauza? Ngati muyamba ndi kanthu, inu simungakhoze basi ndikukhumba zinthu kugwa mu manja mwanu. Muyenera ku kugonthetsa ndi wanzeru kukhala chinachake mu moyo.
A supuni siliva zokha inu mpaka. Ine sindikunena kuti munthu amene ali wachuma sangakhoze kukhala olemera iwo mwamtheradi ndingathere, koma kwathunthu zimadalira munthu.
Kudziwa ndi wothokoza
Ngati inu winawake amene akuyesetsa kuti maloto anu chenicheni kudziwa ndi mlandu amene wakhala pamenepo chifukwa cha inu ndi kuthandiza inu pa ulendo wanu pamwamba. Kuwachitira komanso ndi kuwathandiza mulimonse kuti mungathe kuti muthe zikulire pamodzi.
Ndipo pamene inu potsiriza kupanga izo ndi mabanja anu, mamiliyoni, ndi mabiliyoni, mutani ndi ndalama zanu? Kugula nyumba lalikulu (zinyumba), mwanaalirenji masewera kapena magalimoto, Jets payekha, etc. Ine sindiri kukuuzani inu splurge, koma ndi ndalama ine ndikuyembekeza mphamvu sapita mutu wanu. Kapena cholinga chanu si zingakweze.
Kupereka mmbuyo ndi kuwona ena amakhala bwino komanso ndi bwino kumverera kuposa pamene inu simuli pamwamba onse wekha. Ndipo ngakhale kuyesa kuthandiza ena ndipo safuna kuti ntchito mu ndiye khama lanu ndinu wopanda pake ndipo iwo sakuyenera nthawi yanu. Kupereka nzeru, kuti munthu amene adzatenga izo ndi kukhazikitsa izo.
Ndipo monga mukuonera kanema pamwamba si aliyense amaganizira za ndalama ndi kukhala waukulu ndi otchuka. Chuma ndi mawu amphamvu kwambiri ndipo angatanthauze zinthu zambiri. inde, inu mukhoza kukhala olemera pankhani ndalama, koma mukhoza kukhala wolemera mu chikondi, chimwemwe, ndi thanzi.
Musaganize!
Inu mukhoza kuganiza munthu kukhala munthu yosangalatsa kwambiri nthawi, koma zoona akhoza kudwala china chake choopsa. Inu simukudziwa chimene akhala mwa. Iwo ayenera kuti anakulira akhakula kapena mwina akadali kudutsa chinachake. Choncho musaganize!
Anthu ena bwino kuugwira mtima kuposa ena. Ngati chinachake likukuvutitsani
someone they may lash out in different ways, Mwachitsanzo, munthu uyu akhoza kutenga mkwiyo wawo pa aliyense pamene munthu amene akulira chete nthawi zonse.
Inu konse, choncho musaganize. Ubwenzi ndi munthu kapena kulumikiza anthu iwo ndi kuzilingalira njira kuwachitira ngati kuli kofunika kutero kaya zochitika.
Awiri zakambidwa pa wamukhululukira kwa mdani wanu? 
Ngati inu akumenyana kapena kukangana ndi munthu kuyika hatchet. Moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri chiwonongeko kapena kutaya mtima. mphamvu ayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito kumanga chinachake chachikulu pamodzi. Act mtundu munthu simuli kwambiri amakonda ndi zimene amadana kuti onse ali mnzake usiye ubwenzi.
Pamene mtundu wanu wina ndi munthu amene sayamikira mtima wanu ndiye munthu wochita 
sakuyenera kuyamikira. Iwo ayenera kukankha miyala. Chimodzi mwa zifukwa kukana kwawo chifukwa chikondi cha chisokonezo ndi anthu awa sayenera kukhala moyo chifukwa iwo okha chikulepheretseni. Iwo amati anthu amene sakhoza kukonda ena ndi chifukwa chakuti iwo sakonda okha.
Perekani, kupereka, kupereka, ndipo inu mudzalandira.
Give more than you take and things will be given to you naturally. Ngakhale simulandira kalikonse chuma udzapeza mtima mu moyo wanu. Lekani waumbombo. inde, inu muyenera kuchita zinthu zimene inu kukondwa, koma ngati munthu wina akufunika thandizo, kuwathandiza ndipo kungakuthandizeni m'njira kuti sangathe nokha.
kotero, Ine ndikutsutsa inu! Ine ndikutsutsa inu kupita kunja uko ndi kupereka. Kupereka monga simunatope pamaso! ine ndiri
sindikuyankhula za kupita uko ndi kuitenga mopepuka. Kupita kunja uko ndi wowolowa manja kwa anthu amene amalemekeza inu, yothokoza wanu, ndipo makamaka wochimwa!
Mulibe kupereka chinachake chuma. Do something as simple as saying hello, ntchito ulemu, yocheza ndi munthu, kuyankhula ndi munthu amene si mu kanthawi, malangizo, zinthu zazing'ono kukhala munthu kumwetulira, kupanga munthu kuseka, etc. mukumvetsa mfundo zolondola?
Kodi inu wopatsa lero? Kodi inu kubwezera? Ngati inu chonde ndemanga pansipa zinakuchitikirani. Ngati inu mukukhulupirira nkhaniyi akusowa chonde monga maganizo anu mu ndemanga pansipa.
